Thank you Roses... No... I truly thank you...

Hello Dhaaarlings...



Fellow Blogger Roses has gone and nominated Princess for this lovely "Reality" award...

Though I'm a little perplexed as to why? In in recent times as many of you are aware this blog has become more of an omage to  bare arse... rather than anything of more substance or quality... yet I must admit there has been some real quality arse!

This award it seems is like a "mini meme" and as I haven't bothered to do one of them for such a long while I thought I'd give it a little go...

Honestly I'm feeling really quite touched to have been nominated...

 and apparently all I have to do to show it off is to answer 4 simple questions...

It's as easy as that!

And the thing is... you too can have one of your very own if you just answer the the same four questions on your own blog...  I just have to nominate some other bloggers to join in the excitement

You are quite free to take up the challenge or not~

So here are my answers...

1. If you could change one thing in your life,

 What would it be?

It's a question that I've often pondered... I go through a list of things that I think would make my life better.

It's what I call my "If only list". 

  If only I was... Richer, life was more meaningful, more comfortable... more exciting in some way...

If only I had more... Money, more time, more stuff...

 and then I stop myself.

An "If only list" is the perfect opportunity for some selfindulgent whining...

Wishing for my life to be different from how it actually is... Is easy...

But it is  is purely a distraction from the reality that surrounds me. I can spend a lot of time thinking about how my life might be if I decided to change just one thing in my past.... but in doing that I may well be in a very different place to where I find myself now and that may not be such a good thing...

The key is in embracing the reality of my life as it is... and in recognising that my life experiences... be they good or bad... have got me to where I am now

I'm quite sure that I wouldn't be in the space that I am in now if I had not. Sure ther has been a lot of soul searching along the way...Sometimes in life you have to experience a little pain, heartache, disappointment, hurt, loss and sadness...but there is also the good times that go along with being human...

So I guess that means that I wouldn't change a thing

I am the only person that can make the choice to change my life from how it is... and I am the only person responsible for doing so... 

  

2. If you could repeat any age... Which would it be?

I'd probably choose my 30's... A time when I finally came to terms with being myself and not giving a stuff about what other people thought of me... It was the period in my life when I was living on my own and doing my own thing for the first time ever...

3. What really scares you?

Globalisation in general and Data Mining specifically

4. If you could become someone else for the day... Who would you be?

I really can't imagine being anyone else... Why would I wan't to live anyone else's experience?... Even just for a day... I have my own life to live thanks...

~ooOoo~

So... There you have it...

And the Nominees are...

Bob

Mistress Maddie

Huggy Jon

Mitzi 

Feel free to play along or not... I'ts up to you darlings....

Oh!... before I forget...

Here's some Arse to Celebrate...

Bottom's Up!.... Darlings...